He ﷺ gave her some milk to drink, allowed her young girlfriends to remain with her for a while, and talked to them jokingly - so as to make her feel at ease.Īsma' Bint Yazid Bin as-Sakan reported that she adorned 'A'ishah for the Prophet ﷺ and then invited him in. If she does not appear to be fully ready on the first night, he should work on easing her emotions while waiting for the ultimate union between them one or more days later as might be necessary.Īllah's Messenger ﷺ was very kind and gentle with 'A'ishah (R.A.) on her first night with him. So, he should not brutally force himself on to her. This may make her nervous and slow in cooperating with him. He should understand that this night marks the beginning of a totally new life for her. The husband should be extremely kind to his bride on their first night together, especially if she is a virgin.
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